Hello all! I hope you are all having weeks that are more fabulous than the thought of a reenactment of Pride and Prejudice performed by snakes in top hats.
Well, it's fair to say that graduate school is not for the faint of heart. I am about a month and a half in and about ready to start gnawing on the corners of books.
Yes, I'm aware that just makes me sound like I'm turning into one of my cats, which you all probably feared already, but I swear there are no kitty transformations occurring.
This week I was walking through the parking lot to my car after buying groceries. Okay, honest confession, I was doing the "lug all of your groceries on your arms without hitting your legs with them because you're too proud to use the shopping cart" waddle, but that is neither here nor there.
The car parked directly next to it had a hot pink bumper sticker that read, "Big girls are the sexiest!"
I would have taken a picture, but that would have required untangling myself from several grocery bags and then re-hefting them in the 109 degree heat.
Instead as I trudged back to my car a thought hit me, "Why did I move to a place where the pavement could actually melt my shoes!?"
After that thought came, "I wonder to whose advantage it is to have a body type beauty war?"
Sure, the media benefit when they cast skinny models as the "hot girls" in one film and then have "feel good" films where the heavier girl gets her man. Makeup companies make a killing off of making women compare with each other. Gyms exploit the comparison for memberships...
The long list of those who benefit from women comparing themselves to each other is mind boggling long.
You know who doesn't benefit, though? WOMEN
We as a sex and a gender don't benefit, not one little bumper sticker's worth of an iota, from constantly having to claim that our particular body type is somehow more "beautiful" or more "sexy" than the next girl's body type!
So, are skinny women beautiful? YES
Are curvy women beautiful? YES
Are tall women beautiful? YES
What about <insert random descriptor here>? YES
All women are beautiful, and until we stop competing with each other for the imaginary body-type, beauty queen crown, then we will continue to waste our time and our energy dividing over something useless instead of directing our time and effort towards something actually productive.
You are beautiful, whether you are tall, short, thin, fat, purple (though, if you're purple, you might want to get that checked), trans, straight haired, or built like She-Hulk!
Now it's time, as women, that we all start acting like the beautiful bitches we are.
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